The journey of raising a child is a complex one, filled with little joys and loud cries. It is a roller-coaster ride for our dearest parents. The world is changing so fast that it is difficult to keep track of everything going around. What to do? What parenting style to adapt? How to raise a child? How to prepare them for this new world?Getting these types of questions is very normal for new parents. So, to ease out the parents we’ll talk about two new emerging parenting styles: Elephant and Tiger parenting style.
It is the gentle embrace of parenthood, in which the parents are stable, and loving towards their child, much like the largest land mammal on the planet. Their children can explore, grow, and thrive in a safe environment which they create for them, with emotional well-being taking precedence above other things. Their strategy offers warmth, safety, and unwavering affection, much like a cozy blanket.
Opposite to the above; the tiger parenting style, it is a high-stakes game of discipline and ambition. These parents ferociously guard their offspring and guide them to the peak of the scholastic jungle. They develop a persistent work ethic and unwavering resolve with a strong eye toward success, frequently compromising personal interests and free time in the name of perfection.
Now the big question, which one of them is the better parenting style? And which one to adopt to raise your offspring? The answer to these questions is rather simple, both the parenting styles have their benefits, by adapting a little from both can actually help the parents.
Let’s understand the advantages these parenting styles have to offer; children raised by elephant parents develop –
These emotionally stable people frequently show higher levels of empathy, creativity, and effective interpersonal skills.
Tiger parenting, on the other hand, fosters –
Children brought up in this setting typically excel academically and develop a strong work ethic, equipping them for life in the cutthroat real world.
Remember, the ideal parenting style often lies in harmoniously blending Elephant and Tiger approaches. It is essential to provide emotional support and develop a strong feeling of self, similar to elephant parenting. Instilling discipline, establishing high standards, and promoting a strong work ethic are all equally vital and evocative of tiger parenting. Note that each child is different, thus adaptability is essential. Parents can foster a loving atmosphere that gives their children the tools they need to succeed academically and emotionally by finding a balance between these methods.
Dear parents, take it easy, don’t go too hard on yourself. Ultimately, the journey of parenthood is unique and a very personal one. Also, remember that every child is different, and what works for one may not work for another. The most important ingredient in this recipe is unconditional love, care, and forming a Deep Connection with your child. By creating a balance between different styles of parenting you can create a supportive environment for your kids.
So, just have faith in your gut, acknowledge all accomplishments, and treasure the delightful turmoil that accompanies parenthood.
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– Navika Bajaj
Child Psychologist
